Better Than Before: Mastering the Habits of Our Everyday Lives
by Gretchen Rubin
Gretchen Rubin's answer: through habits. Habits are the invisible
architecture of everyday life. It takes work to make a habit, but once
that habit is set, we can harness the energy of habits to build happier,
stronger, more productive lives.
So if habits are a key to change, then what we really need to know is: How do we change our habits?
So if habits are a key to change, then what we really need to know is: How do we change our habits?
Better than Before answers that question. It presents a
practical, concrete framework to allow readers to understand their habits—and
to change them for good. Infused with Rubin’s compelling voice, rigorous
research, and easy humor, and packed with vivid stories of lives transformed,
Better than Before explains the (sometimes counter-intuitive) core principles
of habit formation.
Along the way, Rubin uses herself as guinea pig, tests her
theories on family and friends, and answers readers’ most pressing
questions—oddly, questions that other writers and researchers tend to ignore:
• Why do I find it tough to create a habit for something I
love to do?
• Sometimes I can change a habit overnight, and sometimes I
can’t change a habit, no matter how hard I try. Why?
• How quickly can I change a habit?
• What can I do to make sure I stick to a new habit?
• How can I help someone else change a habit?
• Why can I keep habits that benefit others, but can’t make
habits that are just for me?
Whether readers want to get more sleep, stop checking their
devices, maintain a healthy weight, or finish an important project, habits make
change possible. Reading just a few chapters of Better Than Before will make
readers eager to start work on their own habits—even before they’ve finished
the book. –Amazon Description
Dead Wake by Erik Larson
On May 1, 1915, with WWI entering its tenth month, a luxury
ocean liner as richly appointed as an English country house sailed out of New
York, bound for Liverpool, carrying a record number of children and infants.
The passengers were surprisingly at ease, even though Germany had declared the
seas around Britain to be a war zone. For months, German U-boats had brought
terror to the North Atlantic. But the Lusitania was one of the era’s great
transatlantic “Greyhounds”—the fastest liner then in service—and her captain,
William Thomas Turner, placed tremendous faith in the gentlemanly strictures of
warfare that for a century had kept civilian ships safe from attack.
Germany, however, was determined to change the rules of the
game, and Walther Schwieger, the captain of Unterseeboot-20, was happy to
oblige. Meanwhile, an ultra-secret British intelligence unit tracked
Schwieger’s U-boat, but told no one. As U-20 and the Lusitania made their way
toward Liverpool, an array of forces both grand and achingly small—hubris, a
chance fog, a closely guarded secret, and more—all converged to produce one of
the great disasters of history.
It is a story that many of us think we know but don’t, and
Erik Larson tells it thrillingly, switching between hunter and hunted while
painting a larger portrait of America at the height of the Progressive Era.
Full of glamour and suspense, Dead Wake brings to life a cast of evocative
characters, from famed Boston bookseller Charles Lauriat to pioneering female
architect Theodate Pope to President Woodrow Wilson, a man lost to grief,
dreading the widening war but also captivated by the prospect of new love.
Gripping and important, Dead Wake captures the sheer drama
and emotional power of a disaster whose intimate details and true meaning have
long been obscured by history. –Amazon Description
Diary of a Mad Diva by Joan Rivers
Following up the phenomenal success of her headline-making
New York Times bestseller I Hate Everyone...Starting With Me, the unstoppable
Joan Rivers is at it again. When her daughter Melissa gives her a diary for
Christmas, at first Joan is horrified—who the hell does Melissa think she is?
That fat pig, Bridget Jones? But as Joan, being both beautiful and
introspective, begins to record her day-to-day musings, she realizes she has a
lot to say.
About everything. And everyone, God help them.
The result? A no-holds-barred, delightfully vicious and
always hilarious look at the everyday life of the ultimate diva. Follow Joan on
a family vacation in Mexico and on trips between New York and Los Angeles where
she mingles with the stars, never missing a beat as she delivers blistering
critiques on current events, and excoriating insights about life, pop culture,
and celebrities (from A to D list), all in her relentlessly funny signature
style.
This is the Diary of a Mad Diva. For the first time in a
century, a diary by someone that’s actually worth reading. –Amazon Description
Ghettoside: A True Story of Murder in America
by Jill Leovy
On a warm spring evening in South Los Angeles, a young man
is shot and killed on a sidewalk minutes away from his home, one of the
thousands of black Americans murdered that year. His assailant runs down the
street, jumps into an SUV, and vanishes, hoping to join the scores of killers
in American cities who are never arrested for their crimes.
But as soon as the case is assigned to Detective John
Skaggs, the odds shift.
Here is the kaleidoscopic story of the quintessential, but
mostly ignored, American murder—a “ghettoside” killing, one young black man
slaying another—and a brilliant and driven cadre of detectives whose creed is
to pursue justice for forgotten victims at all costs. Ghettoside is a
fast-paced narrative of a devastating crime, an intimate portrait of detectives
and a community bonded in tragedy, and a surprising new lens into the great
subject of why murder happens in our cities—and how the epidemic of killings
might yet be stopped. –Amazon Description
H is for Hawk by Helen Macdonald
Destined to be a classic of nature writing, the story of how
one woman trained a goshawk.
As a child Helen Macdonald was determined to become a
falconer. She learned the arcane terminology and read all the classic books,
including T. H. White’s tortured masterpiece, The Goshawk, which describes
White’s struggle to train a hawk as a spiritual contest.
When her father dies and she is knocked sideways by grief,
she becomes obsessed with the idea of training her own goshawk. She buys Mabel
for £800 on a Scottish quayside and takes her home to Cambridge. Then she fills
the freezer with hawk food and unplugs the phone, ready to embark on the long,
strange business of trying to train this wildest of animals.
H is for Hawk is a record of a spiritual journey—an
unflinchingly honest account of Macdonald’s struggle with grief during the
difficult process of the hawk’s taming and her own untaming. At the same time,
it’s a kaleidoscopic biography of the brilliant and troubled novelist T. H.
White, best known for The Once and Future King. It’s a book about memory,
nature and nation, and how it might be possible to try to reconcile death with
life and love.
As John Vaillant’s The Tiger depicted the dangerous
collision of people and nature, H is for Hawk evokes our deepest longings for
something wild. With stunning language that that resonates long after the
book’s conclusion, H is for Hawk is destined to be a classic of nature writing.
– Amazon Description
Just Kids from the Bronx by Arlene Alda
A touching and provocative collection of memories that evoke
the history of one of America's most influential boroughs-the Bronx-through
some of its many success stories
The vivid oral histories in Arlene Alda's Just Kids from the
Bronx reveal what it was like to grow up in the place that bred the influencers
in just about every field of endeavor. The Bronx is where Michael Kay, the New
York Yankees' play-by-play broadcaster, first experienced baseball; where J.
Crew's CEO Millard ("Mickey") Drexler found his ambition; where Neil
deGrasse Tyson and Dava Sobel fell in love with science; and where local music
making inspired singer-songwriter Dion DiMucci and hip-hop's Grandmaster Melle
Mel.
The parks, the pickup games, the tough and tender mothers, the
politics, the gangs, the food-for people who grew up in the Bronx, childhood
recollections are fresh. Arlene Alda's own Bronx memories were a jumping-off
point from which to reminisce with a nun, a police officer, an urban planner,
and with Al Pacino, Carl Reiner, Colin Powell, Maira Kalman, Bobby Bonilla,
Mary Higgins Clark, and many other leading artists, athletes, scientists, and
entrepreneurs-experiences spanning six decades of Bronx living. Alda then
arranged these pieces of the past, from looking for violets along the banks of
the Bronx River to the wake-up calls from teachers who recognized potential,
into one great collective story, a filmlike portrait of the Bronx from the
early twentieth century until today. –Amazon Description
The Brain's Way of Healing by Norman Doidge, M.D.
In The Brain That Changes Itself, Norman Doidge described
the most important breakthrough in our understanding of the brain in four
hundred years: the discovery that the brain can change its own structure and
function in response to mental experience—what we call neuroplasticity.
His revolutionary new book shows, for the first time, how
the amazing process of neuroplastic healing really works. It describes natural,
non-invasive avenues into the brain provided by the forms of energy around
us—light, sound, vibration, movement—which pass through our senses and our
bodies to awaken the brain’s own healing capacities without producing
unpleasant side effects. Doidge explores cases where patients alleviated years
of chronic pain or recovered from debilitating strokes or accidents; children
on the autistic spectrum or with learning disorders normalizing; symptoms of
multiple sclerosis, Parkinson’s disease, and cerebral palsy radically improved,
and other near-miracle recoveries. And we learn how to vastly reduce the risk
of dementia with simple approaches anyone can use.
For centuries it was believed that the brain’s complexity
prevented recovery from damage or disease. The Brain’s Way of Healing shows
that this very sophistication is the source of a unique kind of healing. As he
did so lucidly in The Brain That Changes Itself, Doidge uses stories to present
cutting-edge science with practical real-world applications, and principles
that everyone can apply to improve their brain’s performance and health. –Amazon
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The Life-changing Magic of Tidying Up by Marie Kondo
This #1 New York Times best-selling guide to decluttering
your home from Japanese cleaning consultant Marie Kondo takes readers
step-by-step through her revolutionary KonMari Method for simplifying,
organizing, and storing.
Despite constant efforts to declutter your home, do papers
still accumulate like snowdrifts and clothes pile up like a tangled mess of
noodles?
Japanese cleaning consultant Marie Kondo takes tidying to a
whole new level, promising that if you properly simplify and organize your home
once, you’ll never have to do it again. Most methods advocate a room-by-room or
little-by-little approach, which doom you to pick away at your piles of stuff
forever. The KonMari Method, with its revolutionary category-by-category
system, leads to lasting results. In fact, none of Kondo’s clients have lapsed
(and she still has a three-month waiting list).
With detailed guidance for determining which items in your
house “spark joy” (and which don’t), this international bestseller featuring
Tokyo’s newest lifestyle phenomenon will help you clear your clutter and enjoy
the unique magic of a tidy home—and the calm, motivated mindset it can inspire.
– Amazon Description
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